THE WEDDING DIARIES: The Checklist for the Bride

'THE CHECKLIST' for the BRIDE


Planning an Indian Wedding?

There are several sites offering Indian Wedding checklist. I've researched many while making my master checklist which is helping me to organize my D Day much better.

Here are some points to keep in mind to ensure that everything goes as you wished.

MORE THAN 9 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Choose a special date to tie the knot
  • Appoint a specialist wedding planner (optional)
  • Determine wedding budget and how the expenses will be divided between groom and bride
  • Decide the number of guests, location and time of day for the wedding
  • Determine how your wedding itinerary would look like (programmes in the wedding)
  • Organize a system to track payments made and the party who made the payment
  • Create and consolidate a guest list from both bride and groom side
  • Determine unavoidable factors which may impact your chosen wedding date (e.g. weather, elections etc.)
  • Reserve Sagan / ring / chunni ceremony site / venue
  • Reserve Mehendi ceremony site / venue
  • Reserve wedding ceremony site / venue
  • Reserve wedding reception site / venue
  • Reserve wedding photographer (event + moments)
  • Reserve wedding videographer
  • Decide on the matrimonial theme and colour 
  • Order or renew passport & visa for honeymoon

BETWEEN 6 to 8 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Reserve your marriage officiant (gurudwara, pandit ,minister etc.) 
  • Reserve wedding ceremony musicians
  • Reserve wedding decorator/florist
  • Reserve wedding caterer
  • Reserve wedding reception entertainers / musicians / DJ
  • Decide the trousseau
  • Hunt for hair and makeup artists and get trials from different artists
  • Start Pre Wedding courses (Cookery/Self Grooming)

BETWEEN 4 to 6 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Reserve rental items needed for wedding ceremony
  • Reserve make-up artist, hair stylist and costume stylist
  • Reserve bridal night suite
  • Finalize guest list and obtain invitation mail addresses
  • Decide and purchase wedding card invitations; include map of the site for wedding ceremony and reception
  • Create online invitations
  • Prepare a list of wedding helpers and their responsibilities
  • Begin planning for your honeymoon

BETWEEN 2 to 4 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Reserve wedding cake
  • Reserve wedding transport including decoration for wedding car and wedding party entourage
  • Rent or purchase wedding attire for bride and groom
  • Decide and purchase party favors, wedding door gifts and gifts for wedding helpers
  • Plan activities for out-of-town guests both before and after the wedding
  • Plan accomodation for the guests coming out of town
  • Consider bleeching or cleaning your teeth
  • Book and start pre bridal package
  • Look for wedding favors

BETWEEN 6 to 8 WEEKS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Mail wedding invitations and/or e-mail e-invites
  • Keep track of all invitations and RSVP. Same list can be used to track gifts received and send thank you notes
  • Rent or purchase bridal accessories
  • Purchase bridal shoes
  • Purchase jewellery (thali, wedding rings, etc.) and arrange for engravings
  • Consider and arrange for security escort for bride party who will wear heavy jewellery
  • Finalize your food and drinks menu with caterer
  • Purchase gifts for everyone
  • Make a call to guests who have not responded to invitation
  • Fix appointment with the dematologist 
  • Fix appointment with a dentist
  • Arrange for a bridal portrait or pre-wedding photoshoot to be taken
  • Arrange Mehendi artist
  • Buy Chuda for the wedding day

BETWEEN 2 to 6 WEEKS BEFORE WEDDING
  • Confirm wedding ceremony details and what to bring with marriage officiant
  • Contact guests who have not responded and finalize seating arrangements
  • Create a detailed timeline of the wedding ceremony & reception
  • Provide your service providers a copy of the detailed timeline
  • Form your receiving line and decide how they will usher the bride and groom into the wedding site
  • Provide your photographer a list of special photos you would like taken
  • Provide your videographer a list of special people or events you want included in the video
  • Provide your DJ the songlist you would like played at your event
  • Prepare wedding site road guide boards, guestbook and gift containers
  • Prepare and decorate your home
  • Start packing the suitcase with all the post wedding requirements

ONE WEEK BEFORE WEDDING
  • Arrange final dress fittings to ensure your attire is ready and perfect
  • Select your wedding transport drivers
  • Review your wedding itinerary
  • Provide the layout of your wedding reception to your caterer and reception manager
  • Provide the final count of guests to your caterer and reception manager
  • Communicate last minute changes to your service providers
  • Confirm honeymoon accomodation and reservations and pack for your honeymoon
  • Familiarize yourself with each other's guest lists

A DAY BEFORE THE WEDDING DAY
  • Review this checklist and list down all items to be brought for the wedding 
  • Arrange for a trustworthy person to help you pay the service providers on the wedding day
  • Arrange for someone to return rental items after the wedding
  • Arrange for someone to place wedding site road guide boards at strategic junctions
  • Arrange for someone to coordinate reception food and beverage layout and receipt with caterer on wedding day
  • Arrange for someone to coordinate reception site and stage - to manage emcee, DJ, entertainers, site lighting etc.
  • Provide all members of the wedding party details of wedding day timelines
  • Provide all service providers details of wedding day timelines
  • Review ceremony seating with ushers

THE WEDDING DAY
  • Review this checklist and list down all items to be brought for the wedding 
  • Put together an emergency kit: This should contain Aspirin, Hairspray, Make up, Safety Pins, Mints etc.
  • Bring the official wedding rings and/or thali
  • Relax and enjoy your wedding day

POST WEDDING DAY
  • Send thank you notes to your guests and wedding helpers.
  • Set a budget and buy each other wedding gifts
  • Begin your life together as Husband & Wife! 
  • Prearrange for someone to return any rentals
  • Complete process of name change
  • Meet with photographer/videographer to finalize albums/video
  • Get marriage certificate

Hope this checklist helps you to plan your big day better..!!!

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